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Darcy Eikenberg, PCC

what's eclipsing for you?

Published 25 days ago • 1 min read

"But I don't see anything," my mom thumbed into the group text as I announced the eclipse had begun.

"PUT YOUR GLASSES ON!" typed both my sister and I simultaneously.

As I patiently watched the sun turn into Pac-Man-esque shapes during the moon's partial blockage, I started thinking about the word eclipse.

Beyond its celestial meanings, to be eclipsed can mean losing power or significance.

Which got me thinking about what we might need to eclipse in our day-to-day lives right now.

I mean, we add things all the time to our lists and to-dos. But when do we decide what's coming off the list? What's ready to fade away now? What are we ready to drop?

Not sure? Consider these:

  • The commitment to a behavior, cause or idea that's no longer working for you
  • The pressure to work (or even play) the way you always have but that's no longer rewarding or fun
  • The guilt of the books you haven't read, miles you haven't tred, hours you've spent in bed
  • The comparator yardstick you're using to measure growth in your life

What about you, Reader? What might YOU need to eclipse in your world, even if it causes temporary shade? Hit REPLY and tell me what's coming to mind for you, full moon or not.

After all, sometimes we need a moment in total, dumpy darkness. It's the only way we can appreciate the light you bring to your corner of the world. See you soon!

Always, Darcy

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Darcy Eikenberg, PCC

I help leaders how to help their people stay & grow in the new world of work

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